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Chapter 135: About Growing Up

Mr. Kang was very interested in this kind of group outing. He was so excited just talking about it.

He was like a primary school student who had just been told that the school was going on a spring outing. He couldn't wait to call the farm and ask them to prepare for his spring outing… no, camping trip.

Yue Qin looked away, unable to bear to watch any longer.

At night, Xia Sheng was applying a facial mask while listening to her husband sigh…

Sighing!

Xia Sheng suddenly turned her head, and the mask fell off: "Honey? What's wrong?" Her husband was a very optimistic person and rarely sighed.

Moreover, this period of time could be said to be the happiest time. The art center was no longer causing trouble, she could earn money while playing the piano, her husband's company had no problems, and there was an extra laborer in the family who could not only help wash vegetables, but also help pick up the children from kindergarten when they were too busy.

Could it be that something had happened that she didn't know about?

"Why did you suddenly sigh?"

Only then did Yue Qin tell Xia Sheng what had happened during the day, mainly about the farm. In fact, this matter was just a fuse.

It led to the real problem.

"Will we really be able to not interfere in our children's lives in the future? Even if we think his behavior is wrong, will we be able to not force him to change?"

In fact, the biggest problem is that sometimes parents' vision may not be able to see everything. After all, parents are only human.

But when a child violates the values and worldview of his parents, can he really be let go and make his own choices?

Yue Qin had never doubted it before. In fact, the couple really felt that when the child grew up, there would definitely be a feeling of relief.

After Xia Sheng finished listening, she laughed and said: "Little Bao is different from Big Bao. Big Bao stayed with us for too short a time. Little Bao grew up with us since he was a child, and he will definitely be a good boy in the future."

Xia Sheng was very confident. Kangkang was very smart and respectful of others, and he didn't have any major problems.

Yue Qin asked: "When you see Kang Yue doing something that doesn't fit your ideas, can you not interfere forcibly?"

Xia Sheng thought about it, obviously not.

Yue Qin said: "We've only been taking care of him for less than 4 months, and we're already used to controlling him, hoping that he will go on the path we think is right. He's already an adult."

Isn't this what all parents do? Even when their children grow up, they still don't realize that the other party has grown up, and they still think that the other party is still a child.

No boundaries, no sense of proportion.

A picture suddenly came to Xia Sheng's mind. When her grown-up child wanted to do something, she wouldn't let him do it, and she stubbornly thought she was right and forced the other party to follow her.

… Wasn't this her grandmother and her mother?

Her grandmother couldn't understand her mother and couldn't understand why her mother had to get a divorce. What would others think of a woman after she got divorced?

And her mother couldn't understand her, why did she want to be a girl so much?

The gap between the two generations was like the Great Rift Valley of East Africa. Even if they were close at hand, they couldn't hear what the other was saying.

And the responsibility of a generation seems to be to send the next generation to a new era, to watch them move towards an era they don't understand, and to stay in the old era, angry and painful.

Xia Sheng fell on the bed, turned her head, and sighed, becoming Yue Qin ten minutes ago.

Being a parent is really too difficult. Xia Sheng, who had only been a parent for four years, suddenly thought of two other people.

Xia Sheng suddenly turned her head and asked, "Honey, how did your parents do it?"

To be honest, her parents-in-law didn't quite fit the society's requirements for the older generation.

They rarely interfered with Yue Qin's choices. When he graduated from college, Yue Qin said that he would stay in this city with her, and they agreed.

They would also come to see them every year, but they never actually thought about living there permanently. When they gave birth, others said why didn't they let her mother-in-law take care of her?

Yue Qin said that his mother had never been good at taking care of people, and Xia Sheng was not used to living with elders, so Yue Qin was the only one who took care of their mother and son.

If it were an ordinary parent, they would probably be anxious to death, wishing they could handle everything by themselves.

Xia Sheng said: "How did they do it?"

"I'll give them a call and ask." Yue Qin was also curious.

Yue Qin took out his mobile phone and called his father.

Xia Sheng listened intently, and soon Yue Qin asked this question--

"Dad, did I do anything wrong after I grew up that you thought was wrong?"

The person on the other end was stunned for a moment, as if asking another person: "Wife, what was the family crisis code word we agreed on before?"

Yue Qin said: "Dad, the family crisis code word is whether the fruit in grandpa's house is ripe or not? We don't actually have a grandpa."

The person on the other end said: "Then you really want to ask? You are not in danger, why did you suddenly ask this question?"

"I found that if my child grows up, I will still judge what he does by my standards, and then I can't help but want him to change." Yue Qin said.

"How would you deal with this situation?"

Xia Sheng held her breath and listened carefully--

"Be more specific."

"I shouldn't have made any big mistakes. Take my brother as an example."

Xia Sheng: "…" Own brother.

The person on the other end said: "Your brother gave up being a civil servant and went to be a small actor. In my opinion and your mother's opinion, his behavior is that his brain was kicked by a donkey."

The person on the other end was very open-minded: "We can't do anything about it, force him to come back to be a civil servant? We just need to say a few words, all the way in the future is for him to walk alone, his path should go out of his own style, not repeat the path of me and your mother."

"Back then everyone thought we shouldn't go to the city, including your grandpa."

"The luckiest thing about your mother and I is that we insisted on our own path. Sometimes your mother and I hope that you can be different from our opinions and persevere."

Yue Qin suddenly realized that if he wanted the other party to be a certain kind of person, he actually only needed to say one sentence, but the other party needed to bear the consequences for everything else.

"Raising a child is like making wine. You have done everything you need to do in the early stage, and fermentation is the child's own business."

After the call ended, the young couple couldn't recover for a long time. After a while, the young couple who had only been parents for four years looked at each other.

Xia Sheng: "Your brother actually passed the civil service exam!"

Yue Qin: "We should give them more space."

The two of them almost spoke at the same time, Yue Qin laughed: "This is your focus?"

Xia Sheng: "I also listened to what he said, I hope the two Kangkangs can take a different path from ours."

Xia Sheng suddenly realized that she had already taken a completely different path from her mother and grandmother.

Mr. Kang got up early the next morning, and the first thing he did was to come here to wait for breakfast. It would be a while, and Mr. Kang didn't treat himself as an outsider at all and found the fermented glutinous rice made by his big dad in the kitchen.

Then, he realized that something was not quite right.

Wait, something seems wrong? Where exactly?

Mr. Kang suddenly realized, oh, as soon as he came here, it was the same as yesterday.

The first thing he did was to drink fermented glutinous rice.

However, the violent mother glanced at him and didn't prepare to slap him on the head like yesterday, saying that he was lazy. It would be hot in no time, but he insisted on eating it cold.

He used to listen and heat up the fermented glutinous rice.

What happened today?

Mr. Kang instantly lost his appetite.

Did he do something wrong?

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